More Michelle...
A little bit has happened since my last post about Michelle... The postings get so long that sometimes, I just don't feel like typing for 30 minutes... Today, I feel like typing.
The wife spoke with the Mother over the weekend... It seems that Michelle was over at their house for Mother's Day, trying to fish for attention. Up to that point, she had been unsuccessful... since... she's not really a mother. While the wife was on the phone, her mom says, "You wanna talk to Michelle?" Now, my wife's answer was, "Hell No... I don't have anything to say to her..." I don't know if the mother-in-law had planned it out this way or not, but she managed to ask while Michelle was standing in the room... The wife had to talk to her... Hang on... I gotta go back a little bit. I forgot some stuff.
A week prior to this, the parents went over to Michelle's house (which is really her Uncle's house that they are paying for) and told her she needs to be out by the end of the month. She's welcome to move back home, but she's going to have to clean her act up. At that point, everyone expected her to be packing up and heading home...
A couple days later, her son had a routine checkup... shots and all. Her dad called and told her to come and get her son, take him to his doctor appointment, and spend some time with him... After a few huffs, she did. Right after the doctor appointment, she took him right to daycare (spending no time with him). Her sister works at this daycare... she swore her sister to secrecy and told her, "I'm not moving home... I'm moving to Maine. When I get on my feet, I'm going to send for the son." As soon as the sister saw the mother, she relayed this information... The mother has contacted a lawyer and began proceedings to become the child's legal guardian. Michelle may request to have her son back once/if she gets on her feet... but the parents will again tell them to have her drug tested and her true colors will shine through...
I, for one do not believe that she will in fact move to Maine... In the past, she's talked about moving to Maryland, Pennsylvania, Colorado, Oregon, Nevada and New York... but for some reason, she can't reach these destinations. Maybe it's because she has no money, job, car, skills, ambition or future.
So, she has until the end of the month to figure out what she's going to do. In the mean time, her parents are going to be this kids parents too... I've said it before and I'll say it again... I think they should put the child up for adoption. This is only my opinion, but I think the mother wants the child to remain in the family... he doesn't necessarily have to be raised by them. The brother offered, then retracted... I've been asked a couple times... and the wife has another brother (married with a kid) that I think has been asked. I don't think the mother wants to do it either. I think that in her mind she would never be able to forgive herself for putting him up for adoption...
The first step in becoming the child's guardian, the wife's parents need to fill out some paperwork. On this paperwork there is the required field "Father's Name." Michelle still insists that she does not know who the father is... but hopefully we all soon will. She told her mother she was already on the waiting list for paternity tests with the Welfare people... there was even talk of maybe calling Maury Povich... I hope that happens... This needs to be televised... More to follow...
The wife spoke with the Mother over the weekend... It seems that Michelle was over at their house for Mother's Day, trying to fish for attention. Up to that point, she had been unsuccessful... since... she's not really a mother. While the wife was on the phone, her mom says, "You wanna talk to Michelle?" Now, my wife's answer was, "Hell No... I don't have anything to say to her..." I don't know if the mother-in-law had planned it out this way or not, but she managed to ask while Michelle was standing in the room... The wife had to talk to her... Hang on... I gotta go back a little bit. I forgot some stuff.
A week prior to this, the parents went over to Michelle's house (which is really her Uncle's house that they are paying for) and told her she needs to be out by the end of the month. She's welcome to move back home, but she's going to have to clean her act up. At that point, everyone expected her to be packing up and heading home...
A couple days later, her son had a routine checkup... shots and all. Her dad called and told her to come and get her son, take him to his doctor appointment, and spend some time with him... After a few huffs, she did. Right after the doctor appointment, she took him right to daycare (spending no time with him). Her sister works at this daycare... she swore her sister to secrecy and told her, "I'm not moving home... I'm moving to Maine. When I get on my feet, I'm going to send for the son." As soon as the sister saw the mother, she relayed this information... The mother has contacted a lawyer and began proceedings to become the child's legal guardian. Michelle may request to have her son back once/if she gets on her feet... but the parents will again tell them to have her drug tested and her true colors will shine through...
I, for one do not believe that she will in fact move to Maine... In the past, she's talked about moving to Maryland, Pennsylvania, Colorado, Oregon, Nevada and New York... but for some reason, she can't reach these destinations. Maybe it's because she has no money, job, car, skills, ambition or future.
So, she has until the end of the month to figure out what she's going to do. In the mean time, her parents are going to be this kids parents too... I've said it before and I'll say it again... I think they should put the child up for adoption. This is only my opinion, but I think the mother wants the child to remain in the family... he doesn't necessarily have to be raised by them. The brother offered, then retracted... I've been asked a couple times... and the wife has another brother (married with a kid) that I think has been asked. I don't think the mother wants to do it either. I think that in her mind she would never be able to forgive herself for putting him up for adoption...
The first step in becoming the child's guardian, the wife's parents need to fill out some paperwork. On this paperwork there is the required field "Father's Name." Michelle still insists that she does not know who the father is... but hopefully we all soon will. She told her mother she was already on the waiting list for paternity tests with the Welfare people... there was even talk of maybe calling Maury Povich... I hope that happens... This needs to be televised... More to follow...
